Xa kufikwa ekuphoseni umhlaba owenzelwa umhlaba we-BDSM, abantu abaninzi bahlala besondela kwisilumkiso, bengazi ukuba balindele ntoni. Enye yezona propp zinomdla ezinokongeza i-twist emnandi ukuya kwi-advent yakho esondeleyo yiplagi yomlomo. Le nto ingenayo ayisiyophuli nje amava kodwa ivula umnyango wokukhuthaza i-psychological enokuthi iphakamise unxibelelwano phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho. Ke, masingene kwihlabathi le-plugs kwaye sibone ukuba banokubuxhasa njani ubomi bakho bothando!
Okokuqala, masicacisa ukuba ithini i-BDSM. Ngokuchasene nenkolelo ethandwayo, ayisiyiyo nje yothotho lwezikhonkwane kunye nemixokelelwane, okanye ayithethi ngqo kwimovie ye-porn. Kwisiqhelo, i-BDSM imalunga nentembeko, imvume kunye nonxibelelwano phakathi kwamaqabane. Ngamava othando avumela izibini ukuba zihlole iminqweno yazo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo neyisiseko ilahleko. Igagi yomlomo-iprop eyongeza into eyimfihlakalo kunye nemincili yokudibana kwakho. Khawufane ucinge ngokuchulumancisayo kokuyeka ukulawula, ukulindela okumangalisayo koko kuza, kunye nokudlala okunokwazisa xa ukwazisa le nkqubo yokudlala.
Ngoku, makhe sithethe nge-gag ngokwayo. Esi sixhobo sincinci sihle senzelwe ukugcina umlomo we-Debler uvulekile, udala imvakalelo eyahlukileyo enokwenza umnqweno wesini. Uyilo lwe-gag lihlala libandakanya umngxunya ukuvumela amathe ukuba aphume, onokukhokelela kwiimvakalelo zengqondo zokuthotywa kunye nokungancedi. Kodwa musa ukoyika! Ayisiyongxaki; Imalunga nokuphonononga imida kwaye ityhala imida ngendlela yokuphamba. Ukuvuselela okubonakalayo nokubekwa kwengqondo okuza ngokumanzi kwamathe amathe kunokuba yinto enkulu kuwo omabini amaqela, ukongeza umaleko ongezelelweyo wexesha lakho lokudlala. Kwaye, indlela i-gag ijika iqabane lakho libe nenxaxheba ekuvumeni ukuba ngumdlalo wokulukuhla ngokungathandabuzekiyo kumnandi.
Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqwalasele ukusetyenziswa kweegags ngononophelo. Unxibelelwano luphambili kuyo nayiphi na imeko ye-BDSM, kunye nokuxoxa ngemida, amagama akhuselekileyo, kunye neminqweno yangaphambili kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba amaqela omabini azive ekhululekile kwaye evuya ngamava. Khumbula, injongo kukucaphukisa ukusondelelana nokunxibelelana, ukungavumi okanye uloyiko. Ke nokuba uyi-bidm ye-BDSM enomdla okanye i-inspie enomdla, usebenzisa i-gegs kumdlalo wakho kunokuba yinto emnandi kwaye idlale indlela yokudla uphonononga imilinganiselo yolonwabo kunye.
Ngamafutshane, i-gegs ingaphezulu kweepropu nje; Sisango lokunxibelelana ngokunzulu kunye namava okunika amava. Ngokwamkela icala elidlalwayo le-BDSM, wena neqabane lakho linokuqalisa uhambo oluzaliswe kukuthembana, ukuhlola, kwaye, kunjalo, ukonwaba kakhulu. Ke kutheni ungathathi i-plugh kwaye ungeze i-gag kwiqokelelo yakho yezinto ezisondeleyo? Unokufumanisa ukuba ivulela ilizwe lolonwabo olungazange lwazi lukhona!
IXESHA LOKUQALA: I-DEX-04 ukuya ku-024
