Ngaba ukulungele ukuphelisa amaxesha akho asondeleyo? Ukuba ufuna ukuphonononga ilizwe le-BDSM Dlala, i-paddle yethu yokuphefumla ye-Spanings yindawo efanelekileyo yokuphucula amava akho. Kwisithuba seminyaka elishumi, besisebenza nge-rands kwihlabathi jikelele ukuba sikuzisele iimveliso ezisemgangathweni ezingaphumi nje ukonwaba kodwa kukwahlukanisa nobugcisa kunye nokudakumba. I-paddle yethu yokuntywila ingaphezulu kwesixhobo nje; Sisiqwenga sengxelo esikumema ukuba uphonononge iminqweno yakho ngendlela ekhuselekileyo neyinkcitho.
Yenziwe ngesikhumba sokwenyani, le bhodi yeBhodi ye-BDSM ye-BDS ye-BDS ingabalulekanga kuphela, kodwa nohambo lolonwabo ngalunye. Ubuhle besikhumba kukuba ithatha iluthathaka kwaye ibhotwe ngakumbi ekuhambeni kwexesha, ilungelelanise ii-contours zesikhumba somntu. Oku kuthetha ukuba nge-Shenking nganye yokudlala, awuzibandakanyeki kwisenzo esibonakalayo, ukwakhela unxibelelwano olunzulu neqabane lakho. Bomelele kwaye wakhelwe ukuvavanywa kwexesha, iBhodi yePhephamu yethu kufuneka ibe neqokelelo yakho yezinto ezisondeleyo. Nokuba uyi-bid ye-BDSM evuthayo okanye i-Newbie enomdla, le bhodi ye-spaning iya kuphakamisa amava akho kwaye ikusondeze kwiqabane lakho.
Yintoni ebangela indawo yethu yokuphelisa isidlo se-spankings zokuphefumla, yiloyikiso eliphezulu. Ingaphezulu kwesixhobo kuphela se-BDSM Dlala; Ngumsebenzi wobugcisa ongeze into enesingqala kwigumbi lakho lokulala. Imigca yawo yegumbi kwaye igqitywe ngokungafanelekanga yenza ukuba kungeze ingqokelela yengqokelela yakho, ukuvumela ukuba ubonise umoya wakho wokuzimisela ngaphandle kokulalanisa kwisitayile. Khawufane ucinge ngokuchulumancisa le paddle entle kwiqabane lakho, ibeka inqanaba le-interdage engalibalekiyo yenkanuko kunye nokuhlonela. Ngomsebenzi wayo wobugcisa, le paddle ikumema ukuba uzuze iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uqengqele into engaziwayo.
Kwihlabathi le-BDSM, unxibelelwano kunye nemvume sisitshixo. Iipaddle zethu zokwenyani zenziwe ukuba ziququzelele incoko evulekileyo phakathi kwamaqabane, zivumela ukuba uveze iminqweno kunye nemida yakho. Njengoko uqala kolu hambo kunye, uya kufumanisa iindlela ezintsha zokuqhagamshela kwaye uphonononge imizimba yomnye. Ipaddle sesibini isixhobo solonwabo kunye nesixhobo sonxibelelwano, sikunceda uhambise imeko evuselelayo ye-BDSM. Ke ulinde ntoni? Yongeza imincili kubomi bakho bothando kwaye uvumele i-paddles zethu zokwenyani zikukhokele kwi-adventure ye-interser of wena neqabane lakho ngekhe kulibale.
IXESHA LOKUQALA: UJan-15 ukuya ku-1525
