Kwiinyanga ezine ezidlulileyo eTokyo, ndaya ehotele phantse yonke imihla, ndihlala ukusuka kusasa, kodwa andihlali ubusuku bonke. Ngoku ukuba ndenza i-posicary malunga nehotele, umniniyo undinike igumbi labucala ukuze ndikwazi ukufumana igumbi lokwenene lehotele kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo.Within kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, ukugcuma Kwaye ukubhenela ebhedini, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bekungamangalisi ukubona umntu obhinqileyo ehambahamba nendoda kwinja ivuza.
Ukhe wamangaliswa malunga nokubopha okanye ukubopha iqabane lakho kwigumbi lokulala? I-BDSM-equka ibukhobokeni, uqeqesho, ukulawula kunye nokungenisa, kunye ne-sagasochism-ikhule ngokuthandwa kwiminyaka edlulileyo. Uhlobo oludumileyo lobukhoboka yiShibari, ekwabizwa ngokuba yibukhosi yaseJapan.
UShibari sisisenzo sokomoya.
Ngaphandle kwenkolelo eyaziwayo, uZari ayisiyonto yokomoya eJapan. Le yimeko yabo banandipha ezinye iindlela ze-kink, ezinje ngobukhoboka esikhumba, ukubetha, ukungcungcutheka, ubukumkani kunye nokungenisa, nangaphezulu. Intambo yaseJapan inokuba nemidlalo yesondo engapheliyo, ukuziqhelanisa nehlabathi elixhwilwe, okanye yonke into phakathi. "
IShibari kufuneka inzima kwaye inzima.
Ngelixa inokuba nzima, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe njalo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufunde kwaye ufumane iifom ezintsonkothileyo ezinokuthi zingabi sempilweni kuwe okanye emzimbeni weqabane lakho. Amanye amatye asisiseko, okanye i-corset elula, imnandi. Ekupheleni kosuku, imalunga nokwabelana ngovuyo kwaye kungasoyiki okanye ukoyikisa okanye ukuzonwabisa.
I-shibri yonke malunga nokonwaba.
Kumphezulu, uShibibari usenokubonakala ugxile kuphela ngokupheleleyo ngokwesondo kuphela, kodwa oko bekungasoloko kunjalo. Ngokutsho kotitshala oqinisekisiweyo ngokwesondo uDesis Graversi, abantu abohlukeneyo banezizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuzibandakanya kweli lifa. Uphawula ukuba abantu bahlala befumana ulwazi lomzimba ngexesha nasemva kweShibari, kodwa ayingawo onke amava adinga ukubandakanya isikhuthazo sesondo. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yokuthembela kumava, uya kuziva usondele kwaye uzive usondele komnye umntu.
UShibari unobundlobongela.
Intlungu inokuba yinto yeShibari, kodwa ayifanelanga ukuba ivakale ngathi kukungcungcuthekiswa, kwaye akufuneki ukuba ingonwabisi, i-gravers yatsho. Oku kwenzelwayo, kungekuko ukubandezeleka kwakho. Intembeko yenye into ebalulekileyo ekudlaleni "iShibari" phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho.
Izibonelelo zeChai Bari
1. Ikhuthaza ukusondelelana.
Imfihlo yeBondage kunye nobukhoboka bokonwaba kangangokuba uninzi lwabantu abathethi malunga nokuba lufuna unxibelelwano olusondeleyo kunye notshintshiselwano oluhlala luhleli.
2. Kulula ukuziqhelanisa, ukungazithembi okungenamda.
Njengakwizinto ezininzi ebomini, akukho mntu-u-fit-fit-yonke indlela yeShibari. Kuyaguquleka ngokungapheliyo, kwaye ungaziqhelanisa kwaye uyitshintshe ukuze ilungele zonke iintlobo zomzimba, amanqanaba okuqina kunye namanqanaba amava. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ube bhetyelwe ukuze uyonwabele iShibari, kufuneka nje ucace malunga nento esebenzayo kwaye yenze ntoni.
3. Inokukunika idosi enempilo ye-Endorphophu.
Ngokutsho kweGreveli, xa uthatha isigqibo sokwamkela amava, umzimba wakho uyakuvuyisa nge-hormonis elungileyo, i-serotonin, kunye noDogamine. Nje ukuba uqonde ezi ndlela, ungawutyhala umzimba wakho kude kube ngumda de akunike ezi zibonelelo.
Ukuphonononga iShibari yindlela entle yokuzisa kunye neqabane lakho. Ikwayindlela entle yokwazi umzimba wakho ngcono, obuya kuthi ekugqibeleni kukushiya uziva uxhotyisiwe. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwenza uphando lwakho ngaphambi kokwenza njalo.
Kwakhona, sukuzama ukuxelisa amatyala adutyulwe yi-PROS ngaphandle kokuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko okhuseleko. Ewe kunjalo: Soloko ugcina umdlalo wakho ukhuselekile kwaye uzithandela ngokuzithandela.
IXESHA LOKUQALA: AUG-04-2023
